We’ve all done it.
The fake tan, the lashes, the outfit that makes us feel like her.
Suddenly, we walk a little taller. Smile a little wider. We feel… confident.

But the truth? You’re still the same woman underneath it all.

Same body. Same heart. Same inner doubts — just temporarily muted.

What’s really changed isn’t your skin tone or shoe size.
It’s your thinking.

In this blog, we’re digging into the psychology behind that “dressed-up confidence” — why it feels so real, why it never truly lasts, and what you can do instead to build confidence that doesn’t wash off with micellar water.

Because the heels aren’t the problem. But they’re not the solution either.

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